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You’re not defective, NAIF, and you’re not alone.

In fact, you have lots of horny soul mates out there. Of of strong feminist women with rape fantasies, faithful Jews with Nazi fetishes, or empowered African-Americans who get off on Master/slave r-play scenes. And think of all the gay men out there turned on by those vaguely threatening man's archetypes. I mean, come on: All those cliché gay male sex symbols—truckers, skinheads, Marines, cops, firemen, gangbangers—don’t precisely represent the kinds of people or professions that have historically been associated with patience.

A person can safely explore degrading fantasies—even fantasies chronic in “hate ideology”—so long as he/she is capable of compartmentalizing this substance. Basically, you have to build a firewall between your fantasies and your self-esteem. (And, justifiable as importantly, between your fantasies and your politics.) Once you do that, NAIF, you’ll be able to enjoy your “unswervingly men abusing fags” fantasies without feeling devastated the moment that after you come. In fact, successfully building that firewall and then enjoying your fantasies without loss of face can leave you feeling stronger and more empowered for having these fantasies in the first standing. Call it the sub’s paradox: A D/s sub who can enjoy his fantasies without being shredded by them is in control, not being controlled—regardless of how things might materialize to a casual or misinformed observer.

Source: Washington City Paper

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by A Master and His slave

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